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ericadawn16) wrote2013-11-17 08:48 pm
ericadawn16) wrote2013-11-17 08:48 pm
Deal Breakers
We, as a society, really need to stop pressuring people to have significant others at all costs. Yes, relationships take work and we should deal with the other's differences with a mature outlook if the relationship is to survive BUT there are certain flaws that SHOULD be deal-breakers. They should NOT be tolerated and we should be supporting anyone walking away from this situation.
Deal-breakers that we should all agree on:
*They are a current gang member.
*They deal drugs.
*They regularly use drugs harder than marijuana.
*The majority of their free time is spent drinking and/or doing drugs.
*They show verbal and/or physical abuse to animals and children.
*They demand to know your whereabouts 24/7.
*They find a way to make you pay for everything.
*They constantly want you to do things you're not comfortable with.
*They refuse to practice safe sex.
*They have three or more children, all with different baby mamas/daddies.
*They commit crimes that could lead to JAIL for YOU!
Deal-breakers that we should all agree on:
*They are a current gang member.
*They deal drugs.
*They regularly use drugs harder than marijuana.
*The majority of their free time is spent drinking and/or doing drugs.
*They show verbal and/or physical abuse to animals and children.
*They demand to know your whereabouts 24/7.
*They find a way to make you pay for everything.
*They constantly want you to do things you're not comfortable with.
*They refuse to practice safe sex.
*They have three or more children, all with different baby mamas/daddies.
*They commit crimes that could lead to JAIL for YOU!
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But yeah, all of these are deal breakers for me. I try to convince my friends to part from people who do these things to them. The paying one is particularly an issue I have to tackle with my guy friends because they don't see when they are being used.